seven pounds.

IF YOU HAVE NOT SEEN THE MOVIE SKIP THIS BLOG!



You know I usually don't do movie reviews, because I see too many movies, have a weird taste in movies and I look into different aspects of movies. But if you havent seen Seven Pounds yet, you are missing out. We all have seen it and its things in this movie that made me want to blog. The main thing that caught my eye is the love for oneself, but not for himself. In this movie, Will Smith's character (Tim Thomas) knew his suicide was upon himself, but he knew he just couldn't let himself die, he had to do something bigger. Therefore he helped lives that were in need of help and well worth deserving the help. He realized that the love for himself and his life was gone so why not spread it to someone else that will cherish it more than you.

Minimal shit.
- Jellyfish BEEN cool. Yall niggas are late.
- Rosario Dawson was the finest sick bitch I ever seen in my life, but wasn't the finest woman in the movie.
- White lies don't hurt sometimes.
- Speaking spanish is necessary in today's world.
- IRS agents have too much power.
- Nursing homes are scary.
- Will Smith will play the older Obama in the biopic.
- I will still text while I drive.
- I am officially a donor now.
- It is a known fact that once you die your body is filled with embalming fluid and all your body parts are placed at the foot of your casket. Why not pass your body parts long when you die?

i-n.

PS-Im seeing this movie five times.

cool kids.

Since coming back from Greensboro, NC to Lanham, MD there are many differences. The cost of living is obviously cheaper in the south and the fast pace life of the metro area isn't fueled by college students like Greensboro. And in Greensboro, there are a few clubs, but nothing is compared to the DC club scene except for other large markets like LA or Miami. Now in this club scene, you see women of all colors, creeds, cultures and backgrounds. But one consistent fact that remains in ALL of these women are the "cool" factor. 98% of the girls in the club have to look a certain way, walk a certain, etc. All showing that they are "cooler" than the rest or "flyer" than the rest. Ladies, trust me, every man loves a woman that is confident within themselves and carries themselves well, but BEING COOL 24/7 IS NOT COOL. In NC, girls are more laid back and confident through there personality, not just through there outer appearance. Thats exactly how I found my beautiful girlfriend (lol). I feel girls "back home" are more picky and focus too much on looks. Now I'm not ugly and I don't have a problem pulling the BEST of them, but there are times when my mans are unrightfully turned down when just based off looks/style/SWAGGER (don't get me started) alone. Thats that bullshit, but whatever. All I'm asking is for you to take off your cool. Bat your eyes, take a chance and DANCE! If you feel otherwise, and your happy where you at in life stay cool my fair lady. Now this blog wouldn't be fair if I didn't share any light on the fellas. Fellas take off your cool too. Stop paying attention to the guy next to you and let the small shit go. Yes, he bumped you on accident and yes, he stepped on your shoes on accident, let that shit go. Be cool 3000! And when in the club atmosphere, you must realize that just because you seen Jeezy on WorldStarHipHip.com have hoes run to him doesn't mean the same will happen to you. The club scene is not a hip hop video. In conclusion, I just want you guys and gals to check out an old hip hop video, like mid 90s. Any random one. People were having pure fun in there and just living in the moment. I feel like in the area people want to be the moment instead of living it. But o well, to each is own.

i-n.

Playoff Predictions.

Looks like I wasnt too far off with my preseason picks and Im sticking to my guns.

NFC Title Game - Eagles over Giants.

AFC Title Game - Colts over Titans.

Super Bowl - Peyton outduels McNabb. Crown him the greatest ever.

i-n.

NFL Preseason Predictions.

AFC EAST - Patriots

AFC SOUTH - Colts

AFC NORTH - Steelers

AFC WEST - Chargers

Wild Cards - Jaguars & Browns

AFC Championship Game - Colts over Steelers

NFC EAST - Cowboys

NFC SOUTH - Buccaneers

NFC NORTH - Packers

NFC WEST - Seahawks

Wild Cards - Eagles & Giants

NFC Championship Game - Cowboys over Eagles

Super Bowl - Peyton Manning and the Colts win there 2nd Super Bowl in two years.

i-n.

thou shall be KING.

Now that we are HERE, here are five burning questions that kill me when I think about Barack Obama's presidency?

1. If elected (Once elected for the cocky people) will be assassinated?

JFK was. Martin was. All the leaders that wanted to make an extreme change in America suddenly were obsolete. Now comes Barack. Promising change and a new America. Only time will tell.

2. If elected and his presidency doesn't live up to expectations, will the media and people rip him apart?

Well I believe Obama has the people in the palm of his hands but as far as the media goes thats another story. Obama has made plenty of promises and his to do list is looking quite large. And if the media doesn't see immediate moves expect a slaying of his name. Barack is a wholesome, well-spoken gentlemen, but the media is an unforgiving monster and no matter the race, gender, creed or income they will do as they may.

3. At this point, has Barack earned the right to be on the Mt. Rushmore of Black Leaders (i.e. - Martin, Malcolm, Jesse & Garvey)?

I believe so. The biggest difference between the four I mentioned is that Barack is living in a different time period. Those past leaders were trying to unite blacks and blacks with whites. In today's society, Barack is trying to unite all races and ethnic backgrounds. He is not jus redefining Black America, but America as well.

4. Will Hip Hop hurt Barack's presidency campaign?

From Nas' "Black President" to Young Jeezy's "My President is Black", emcess have been spitting some hard lyrics to support Obama's campaign trail, but I think they need to hold the horses. On Ludacris' "The Preview" Mixtape he refers to Hilary as a bitch and McCain as an old man. Even though the lyrics might support the eyes and ears of Hip Hop, if the media and McCain's campaign gain that evidence, they could always reword it to make it look like Obama was in the video for it. I suggest all rappers to put the mics down til the parade and then you can come congratulate our newest President with your hottest 16.

5. Will he win?
thou shall be KING.

i-n.

tarnished trophy.

"Don't you, ever, get too, comfortable" -babyface.

The love is in the air. The relationship is even stronger. And after all the bullshit from the past year or so, you guys are still together. But one circumstance that lies in a mans mind while with his lady over an extended period of time is her dress code. Now you (ladies) are comfortable in the relationship. Paying no mind to it, I notice ladies feel as though they don't as much effort into there outer appearance as the relationship goes on. Meaning, the heels are only for club use now and the freekum dress is only pulled out for one of your girlfriend's birthdays. Therefore, it leaves us (men) going out on dates with women in wifebeaters, baby tees & sweats. Now I am not asking you to put on a sundress and pumps when going to Wal-Mart, but just take into account that when out with your man man, you are his trophy, his star and his sun. So why not let that sun shine? In black love, all we have is each other, so why not treat me like its the first date and make my mind wonder?

love-peace&hairgrease.

i-n.

gold rush.

We are thirty three days away from the presentation of medals for men's basketball at the Beijing Olympics. There you will find Team USA. Headed by Kobe Bryant and LeBron James, this somewhat undersized team will be accepting there gold medals and singing the national anthem. Most will be hiding tears and all will be overjoyed in this feat. Considering that the USA hasn't won a world tournament since 2000. But you know all the facts, you know all the players and know the feats they will face. There is no need for me to breakdown the thoughts lingering in peoples minds about this team. Yes, we should have added more size and yes, we might be smaller than anyone else. But without a doubt, this is the most talented and athletic team ever assembled. The question is how much and by how many. This team will win, but may get hit with a few small speed bumps. But in the end, there will be tears of joy and a bunch of "I tol you so's."


EXHIBITION TV SCHEDULE

7/31 - v. Turkey @ 8am on ESPN2 & re-airs @ 8pm on ESPN2

8/1 - v. Lithuania @ 8am on ESPN2

8/3 - v. Russia @ 3am on ESPN2 & re-airs @ 7pm on ESPN2

8/5 - v. Austrailia @ 8am on ESPN2 & re-airs @ 8pm on ESPN2

All times are Eastern.
i-n.

phase chasers.

"Im just waiting to wake up from this dream" -cupcake.

You can talk to her for hours. You miss her as soon as she leaves. And when the grown up is done, the grown up is DONE. The infatuation phase might be the best phase in the converting friends into lovers. To me the phase is very blinding though. At this part of the relationship, even though its not a certified nor exclusive, all you notice is the good things. The bad things seem to be irrelevant due to us being young, black and alone we seem to cling to one another. Even though they may smack when they eat or be a constant phone checker, these slight things are nothing in the infatuation phase. The lust is deep and the love looks to be real, but is it a figment of our imagination or isn't it? That is the question we must ask when any of us falls head over heels for a new fling. Is this a summer fling that will grow into winter love just to be split into a spring break? Love has many tricks and turns, but one thing for certain is that the new found infatuation in meeting a new being will be there. Its always good to think optimistic, but then there are times were you need to be pessimistic. Black love is beautiful, but sometimes can be blinded to be black lust if the sex is overwhelming and the physical attraction is fatal. Listen to your mind, but trust your heart ladies and gentlemen. The infatuation phase is a motherfucker.

NOTE: Fellas I suggest you do background checks, credit card checks and ask around about a female before claiming anything.

i-n.

tomato, tomato.

"you gon miss me when Im gone" -hova.




She had such a distinct taste. We've all been enjoying her fresh taste since we were kids. Some say shes even a fruit. Some say shes a vegetable. To me shes everything. The other day I ordered a Chicken Tendercrisp from Burger King (imo-the best chicken sandwich in the world) and within the first bite I realized a difference. The chicken was done, the lettuce was fresh and the buns were buns. But aside form the obvious, my favorite fast food sandwich was missing the tomatoes. Never mentioned into the spotlight, never received great credit, but here today I am. The tomato might be the greatest the role player in sandwich history. Yes-everybody didn't love her and yes-the ones that did never really appreciated her. But this blog was made for her. I love you tomato and get well soon.

i-n.

meet the cool kids.

www.myspace.com/gocoolkids

i-n.

six hundred.

"greatest home run hitter of our era" - espn.







600 homers.
2600+ hits.
13 time All Star.
10 Gold Glover.

1 Ken Griffey, Jr.

i-n.

bros over hoes.

"man fuck that skut ass scavengin ass bitch" -lovetrain



Ladies its not your fault. We were raised like this. From the sandbox to now we, men, have always hung tough. It just in our genes. A common bond amongst us guys. You wonder why we fight so much at the club over nonsense, just cuz we got our mans back and that we will do anything for each other. No woman can come before a man and his boys. Its just a code thing. In the sandbox or at recess, we fought girls, played Freaky Fridays with them and hide and go get it. However, if you recall, we always did it with our boys. Its the small moments that we cherish together for lifetimes that come to men bonding with men. Its the sports as a youth that teach us teamwork and respect for one another. And see thats where the problem lies for most female friendships. As a youth, most ladies don't develop teamwork and respect for oneself to even respect each other. Alot of girls just learn to watch television and rant&rave around. And the term "bros over hoes" is funny, because the only reason why the term is "hoe" is because it rhymes. Its really no offense to the women but its just a word to classify them at once and rhymes with bros. Even though the bond is strong there are some men who have no backbone and let their "lady" run their lives, but thats just a small percentile. Ladies please don't try to jump over a man and his boys or you will just be dismissed. They are our brothers and you need to accept your position. You will get promoted in due time if you apply.

i-n.

r&b is ALIVE.

In 2004 Usher released the critically acclaimed "Confessions" that went DIAMOND in sales, spawned world tours and spoke of his revelations in his personal life. Now in 2008, he stands to release his follow-up, "Here I Stand." But this blog isn't about Usher's grand achievements but the overlooked brothers in his own profession. In the past four years, some of the best male r&b material has been released and no one has said a word. We know hip hop is dead, alive and revived, but male r&b is growing. So many newcomers have came and dropped very solid debut albums including J Holiday's "Back of my Lac", Dream's ultra sexy "Love Hate" and the revival of a career in Jamie Foxx's "Unpredictable." Then there have been the once in a lifetime artist like John Legend who released "Get Lifted" in 2004 and came back and dropped an ego trippin switch in "Once Again." His mellow tone and lively figures leave bedrooms and backseats in awe when he plays. Another artist who has given the public two doses in this span is the metro's own Raheem DeVaughn. "The Love Experience" premiered in 200, but was an underground classic because it wasn't marketed well. However, due to the growing popularity of "Love Behind the Melody" new fans are referring back to the classic RDV. Also, one man has been the heart and go to guy of this writing thing for a while and thats Ne-Yo. Including his own albums, Ne Yo has generated nothing but fire from under his pen and pad. His detailed lyrics and steady beats keep the night afloat and I can't wait for the "Year of the Gentlemen." The most consistent artist of the r&b crooners is Musiq Soulchild. After taking his own four year hiatus, "luvanmusiq" was released and was a quiet storm at first. Later it would rise to gold in sales and recieve a Grammy. But the biggest surprise had to be Puff's reality tv experiment in Making the Band. Later to be named Day26 (which no one still doesn't know what that means) they would grow up right before out eyes in three seasons of hardships under Puff's guidance. When the self-titled album dropped in 2008, alot of people were skeptical and weren't trying to fall under the reality hype. However, I can honestly say this IS the best male r&b group CD i've heard since the Dru Hill days. Take my word for it. But even through all this success, there were failures and setbacks. Tank is still a one hit wonder, Tyrese left to do movies and TPain still has his technology and rap chorus hooks. But what I am trying to get you to understand is that r&b isn't just a one man band, but more like a dream team. I suggest if you haven't copped or heard any of these albums, I say you burn them, purchase them, do what you do.

NOTE: Only sex, love and baby making can be made to these CDs-no fucking! enjoy!

East Coast v West Coast.

Three reasons why the Lakers WILL win the NBA Finals.

1. Bench play
A hungry, deep bench that consists of speed (Farmar), shooting (Radmonovic & Vujacic) and hustle (Turiaf) this is no B-team!

2. Lamar Odom
The quick and Mr Do it All big man was the key difference to the Spurs demise. I expect nothing but the same against the Celtics.

3. KOBE.
nuff said.

Three reasons why the Celtics WILL win the NBA Finals.

1. Defense
With the quickness and speed of Rondo at the point and Garnett lurking in the back ground, the C's defense is very stingy when it comes to scoring.

2. Home court advantage
The possibility that they can win the championship without winning another road game and the fact that they lost only one home game is remarkable.

3. Kevin Garnett
13 hard, long seasons later. This is what he has been waiting for.

lakers in 7.

i-n.

Kanye West - Flashing Lights - second version.

this is mines, that is yours.

"shes the dame whos the username to all my passwords" - lupe.

I really wonder why the guy/girl that came up with the password to the cell phone was thinking. We all know its there for security and protection for if your cell phone is lost or stolen, but what about spousal abuse? You know the insecure girlfriend that wants to know your every move or the little side joint that just wants to know your business. This can be annoying and irritable for the average man. And ladies I know there are men out there that do the same things. So my question is why not calm down the emotions and relax. My first argument is that it is 2008 people. Plenty of people like myself put very personal and intimate things in our cell phones, because the cell phone can do damn near everything. My second argument is why be so insecure. I trust you, you trust me. There is no need to verify trust by digging through phones and emails. The last argument would have to be if I don't go through yours, why go through mines? That is just self explanatory. And then I know there are some men and women out there that are in relationships that share passwords, but still keep there cell phones to themselves. This is cool for now, but when times get tough the questions will fly and come at a rapid pace. Next thing you know, you might have to hide your cell phone. Thats why I believe the cell phone and password sharing should be kept to ones self. Now I am not married nor planning to in the near future so I can't answer this question for the newlyweds. Enter with your own caution.

i-n.

how to ... with Karrine 'Superhead' Steffans.

xxxvidstream.blogspot.com/2008/05/
hip-hops-1-groupie-superhead-with-mr.html

i broke the link up so your kid sister won't view it..

copy and paste the link above in your address box.

watch-learn-practice-master

ENJOY!

NOTE: If you want to KEEP your man at bay, I suggest you learn.

i-n.

all eyes on me!

"braceface! sit your ass down" - dj alize.

You know as a twenty some odd year older, one of the best privileges you have is going to the club. The whole nightlife experience, from the pre-gaming to the false realities of bringing a breezy back to the crib is fascinating. As a youngster we saw our parents, uncles and aunts, cousins, older siblings and eventually us enjoy this lifestyle. Drinks will overflow, fights will happen and someone will have to babysit their best friend tonight. All of these situations regularly happen at the club. But then again these situations can be avoided or put to some type of rest. However, there are unavoidable and irritating people in the club like the SUPER bouncer, because he has to be more annoying than a mall cop or the wack ass DJ who thinks hes keeping the party going. But to top these two I would like you to meet the attention whore. YES, the attention whore. Every song is HER song. She knows the the words to EVERY song. Vodka is pouring from out her sweat glands and her freekum dress continues to rise to no mans surprise. Her eyes are damn near shut but her mouth continues to run. For some reason she knows too many people in this club and her hair is all but gone. You know if you read that again, you would think I'm talking about a birthday girl of some sort, but I'm not. See usually thats where the attention whore messes up psychologically. She thinks its her birthday and wants all the attention on her, but no. Ladies, I give you one day out the year to be the biggest attention whore all you want to be, but if I continually see you in the club acting like its your birthday we have a problem. But the bad thing about REAL attention whores, some don't need the club lights to hit them or the mimosa to run through them. For some its their nature to be loud and proud. When you talk to them, they dominate the conversation. When you see them in the streets, you can hear them from a block away. Either all of these girls had a sibling who stole the attention from them as a youth, were the only child or just love to have all on eyes them. Sometimes I can understand why these girls act like this. Usually two or three girls in their crew look better than them so they have to compensate for the attention distribution. See what you have to understand attention whores is that your really getting bad attention. Don't no real man want an attention grabbing female that gets it through her mouth. And I'm not saying that the quietest are the best, but ladies if you actually want to pull something that is worth something, please calm down. The real attention getters are the ones who stand out through appearance, not volume.

NOTE: You can be an attention whore through non-verbal communication too. i.e. - dancing on chairs, tables, poles, etc.

i-n.

Wale - W.A.L.E.D.A.N.C.E.

phone tag. YOUR it.

"ima call you back" -anonymous.

You know in a world where texting and sending messages seems to be the best way of communication, nothing is better than a simple phone conversation. You know just to check up on someone or even to arrange a meeting between the two. But in todays world, calling is just used for delivery orders, calling Wachovia to say that you lost your debit card and to check on moms every once in a while. However, not too long ago there was a time where you would call a lady of interest and actually get to know them and care for them in some type a way. Some days you would call her and as soon as she picked up the phone, she says, "I'll call you back." Being the gentleman you are you let her call you back. But by the time you are ready to go to bed, still no call back. Now this is where it gets tricky people. Do you call back even though she said she will call you back or send a polite text saying "goodnite" or one saying "i wish i woulda got a call back." Now the next day is here, you check your phone and still no text back or call. Now the same three options come up in yout head again but its more like fuck it. You may be in love, in lust or just plain infatuated with the conuterpart, but any and everyone hates to chase some one down. As if your the only one that wants to chill. Not calling back is a serious disease that is going around in our communities. Just a simple, "im sleepy" text will be a good enough for some. In conclusion, ladies and fellas too, you must drop this habit before that someone is fed up and just wont accept you for who you are any more.

NOTE: Excuses are tools of the incompetent.

selfish&greedy.

"i couldn't pull out, it was toooo.." - lovetrain.

My brothers, my brothers. No matter what social class you reside in, what hood you belong too or even what size white tee you wear, we are all brothers in the same struggle as being a black man in America. Through all the dumb shit I have seen in my days from guys fighting over stepping on shoes or colors by far the dumbest is nutting IN girls without a condom on. That is just the purest sign of greed and selfishness. You know the consequences of going in there raw already, THEN you nut IN her. I just don't get it. I, personally, have gone raw before and it is an unreal and undescrible feeling. But I don't know about you guys, but when I feel the Big Kahuna coming I automatically here baby screams and get the hell out of there. If you are going to go raw the least you can do is pull out for the girl's sake. You don't have to go through nine months of pain, irritation and hostility. This blog is basically about pulling out and respecting the female you are sharing the experience with. You got to remember my brothers this isn't all about you, neither is it all about her, its a shared experience. So why not have a great ending by just pulling out and if necessary, splashing on her belly or back. Too many of my brothers fall into the trap of early parenthood and not ready for the responsibility that a child brings. None of us are naturally ready to raise a child but forced to, therefore leading to a domino effect of uncertainties. And to my brothers out there that have had a child due to greediness, keep pushing and keep your head up. Raise the child to the best of your abilities and don't become a statistic or cliche. Our generation is already defined as troublemakers and fuckups, so why add to the madness? Sometimes life just comes down to the most simple choices and decisions. Think with your mind guys, not your heads!

i-n.

rick ross ft. nelly - here i am/maybach music

one of my favorite joints from the CD.

nelly holds his own.

cool concept to the vid.

seems like they actually put thought and work into it.

check your mans side ponytail tho. my god!

i-n.

the prince that shall be KING.

"He is a crybaby" - hater.

You know his name. You know is face. You know his numbers. But did you know ever since the ripe age of 14, LeBron James has had a camera in his face and a microphone near his mouth? Just a few hours ago, James' season came to a thrilling end as the Cavaliers lost to the Celtics. He gave quite a heroic performance with 45 points, five rebounds and six assists. However, this blog isn't about his shortcomings or his progressed play over the past five seasons in the NBA. LeBron has been living with the pressures to be perfect for forever it seems. Now after this loss, every newspaper column you read and every analyst you will see tomorrow will say LeBron isn't clutch or LeBron can't get it done. They will say LeBron can't shoot a midrange jumper and that he doesn't have enough killer instinct. But all I want to ask those naysayers is this - "Could you do it?" The young prodigy has been living with a monkey on his back since grade school. Trying to be perfect, trying to please everyone and be liked by all. But the one thing James has to get over before reaching the mountain top is to say "Fuck the media, I'm going to do me." To me it seems the endorsements and being the face of the NBA holds him back from doing his natural motives. In the opening round series with the Washington Wizards, LeBron was caught in a fueling grudge match with some Wizards guard. Throughout the series, words and blows would be exchanged, eventually leading to LeBron getting the last laugh by advancing to the next round. However, I believe LeBron lost the mental battle and let the Wizards get into his head. LeBron played like shit the following two games, but ultimately woke up too late. I understand him and Stern have a business relationship and that he has over $100 million in endorsements, but it comes a time where a man has to be a man. Magic won without Kareem, Jordan took down the Pistons and Kobe left Shaq. Now I am asking LeBron to bitchslap the media, the endorsements and even the NBA if possible. There is a killer that lives within James and the world is holding him back from displaying it. At times through the playoffs I saw glimpses of the killer and that no one could touch him but himself. In the 2008-2009 season, expect to see a new James. He will have a gold medal from the Olympics around his neck and know the feeling of being part of a championship team. Which should result in him trying even harder to reach that legendary status amongst the greats. In conclusion, the microscope and magnifying glass can be on him for only so long before he reacts back. Only in due time, we will ALL be witnesses.

NOTE: LBJ doesn't NEED a jumper. I think if he adds a significant floater and better pump fake his points will increase and field goal percentage rise.

i-n.

the pains of a minuteman.

"you got to be kidding me!?!?!" - anonymous.

Do you ladies really know how powerful pussy is? I really believe you ladies underestimate how GREAT it is. The whole perplexity and the demographics of the vagina are just amazing. The delicate tenderness, the instant moisture and the distinct, yet amusing aroma all make her to be an unstoppable force in a man's mind. I am not trying to put the pussy on a pedestal, but it does deserve its credit. Through time EVERY man will slip up at least once and get caught off guard by the power the pussy holds. Now once caught off guard, a man feels embarrassed, shocked and sometimes even mad at himself, because his mind was prepared for a long session. But sometimes Mr. Know it All will have its way. Now ladies here is the key point. He is sitting there damn near suicidal and lost and he is just looking for some type of comfort or relief. Please don't make fun of his shortcomings or overreact to the situation. In my own personal adventure of minutemanness, I and other peers of mine personally like when the female "talks shit" or challenges us to finish the job. Its so surreal, because 90% of black males played little league sports and all of us had that one coached that pushed us to the limit and we thank him for that. But back to the topic at hand, this is just one way of ending the madness to the quick start. Another possible way of consoling a man to a burnout is to "take care of him"-you know, a little kiss here, little kiss there, etc. In the end, ladies can you just remember that the pussy is powerful and being caught off guard is a serious matter. Be considerate and please get him back up, because more than likely that second time around will blow your mind.

i-n.

three headed monster.

"He doesn't love me" -possum.

Love is a very powerful thing. It can bring two people together and bring years of bliss and happiness, sometimes even create a family. But as young adults in a sex, money and violence driven society, love is sometimes blinded by those demons. But those demons don't make up this monster. This monster is a black man in a society where they don't want him to succeed or find love. In the journey for love and the ONE he will meet rollers, hoes, flings, flirts, affairs and babymamas. These women aren't necessarily BAD for you, because they do teach you some lessons and the different instances in which their mind works. To me, these women are only classified as the way they are because of the brain(s) they can control on a man. A man has three brains-mind, heart and you know the other. His mind is the logical one out of the bunch. He is the best decision maker and is the only that can stop you know who from moving forward. The heart is more like the soul and the thinker of the bunch. As for Mr. Know it All, he doesn't think at all and only goes off of feeling. Now with all these three different personalities conformed into one, all have their faults. The mind thinks too much sometimes and can lead to over-analyzed decisions. The heart is a very emotional brain. For instance, when scorned the heart will disapprove of you automatically. Mr. Know it All is the one who's biggest downfall is just being about feeling. It might sound absurd but no matter how much he is love, Mr. Know it All will takeover. In essence, ladies if you want to find and keep hubby, you must have control and manifest over all three of his brains. In the ladies I listed before all of them controlled or manifested one or some of the three, but wifey is the special one that will make a man commit and be true to himself and his spouse. Through this, love and happiness will exist.

love.peace&hairgrease.

i-n.

wonder woman's kryptonite.

"what happened to her???" - dean.



You know out of all the different kinds of women I have seen in my short life, non compare to a black woman. They are strong, opinionated and beautiful women. They come in all sizes from thick to petite and from tall to small. But for every wonder woman they must have a kryptonite. And in the case of these wonder women, metabolism is their kryptonite. Now metabolism is basically what breaks down food in your body, therefore, as you grow older your metabolism becomes slower. Which leads to females metabolisms slow up around the college years and thats why "Freshmen 20" or "Post Grad 20" exist. Unlike Superman, you all can fight your kryptonite. The easiest step is to go to the gym. Yes, sex is excerise, but its mostly cardio. In the gym, you can get rid of that newly acquired double chin, muffin top, cottage cheese on your legs and proportion all of that thickness into the right places. Im not asking all of you to aim to be Angela Basset or Jackie Joyner-Kersey, but have some type of pride. I notice, you notice and your mama notice that you are gaining weight so why not make a change? I suggest you and a couple of friends go there and work out with each other, you know just like how you all started drinking together. Yes, the first week will burn and you might not see results immediately but it will all pan out in the end. Right now only lames are trying to get at you, so why not go to the gym and get even more lames to stalk you? This blog isn't just an effort to get your torso right and ass phat but just to stay fit. Our grandmothers and grandfathers didn't know about diabetes, different types of cancers and such so why play ignorant to the fact and get your mind and body right. I really hope this blog inspires you to go hit the gym or even if your currently fit to bring a friend with you. Your already have the beauty ladies, so why not try to have th e life long beauty.

NOTE: Excuses are tools of the incompetent.

his airness in 1986.

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seventh heaven.

"am i my brothers keeper?" - nino brown

When I first saw New Jack City I learned many inner city rules and logics. For one, Nino Brown and Cash Money Brothers made it clear that it was always business before pleasure, no matter the circumstances. Another critical logic in the movie showed how money and drugs can break up the best of friends, even brothers. But the one that was the most significant was the factor of loyalty. CMB was based off of one statement, "i am my brothers keeper" meaning that no matter what you had your brother back. But due to backstabbing, money issues and a new found addiction to the glass dick, G Money and Ninos relationship eroded and eventually led to Nino murdering his own brother. In todays society of corrupt crime and criminal like individuals one man stands out in my mind. Convicted on cruelty to animals, Michael Vick is now facing a year or so in jail. But this isn't an article about his severe acts to dogs and not being able to leave the backhome boys, but a blog about his loyalty. With all three of his lifelong best friends throwing him under the bus, Vick wouldn't give in. He was loyal to himself and his boys. Later Vick would make a plea agreement to get a shorter sentence. But you really can't blame him for giving in at the end, since all of his "boys" snitched on him. Even after the horrible acts he committed to doing, Vick still has my respect for being true to himself and his ideals. if Vick can learn his lessons and stay on the right path he will return to greatness. But even if he does come up short on his return, he will always be his brothers keeper.

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fifty.

"when your playing bad your old, but when your playing good your experienced" - costas

In the suburban black community alot of things are not certain for a man. No one is guaranteed a father, being financially stable or even a settle home. But in most cases, a mother-son connection is destined. I don't know how to explain it. You can call me a mama's boy or whateva, but thats just love and bond that grows from within. And this post is dedicated to the number one woman in my life. From child birth my mom kept a patient hand with me and raised me quite well. She kept me active in my studies and sports and always told me to think and dream big. Its just amazes me how shes still here beside me after all the dumb things I been through, being suspended, failing classes and even lying to her. But we are all past that now. On May 15, 2008 Gayle Mundell turns the ripe and tender age of fifty. Words really can't symbolize how I feel towards her but all I know is that she is my hero and I wouldn't change anything for the world. Today is your day.

Happy Birthday Mom. thank you.

-T

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auras, silverware&paper towels.

"aint no three sheeters in here, but its a couple twos" - forty.

Man you ever walking around Wal-Mart or Target and just randomly see a baaaaaaaad (meaning good for my non-blacks) female come into your presence. A mans first impression is to analyze quickly and in a timely manner, because in times like this, time is of the essence. So some men look at womans bodies first and some look at faces. But in my journeys, I like to look at the overall girl and examine her aura. Yes-aura! Like Dave Chappelle sketch comedy, when Charlie Murphy met Rick James for the first time. Some girls actually have that aura and they come in different colors and scents. According to the color, its a good chance what type of female they are. For instance, if you see a deep purple glow around a female that are usually a sexual deviant and give off extreme sexual tension when you come to chill with them. Now in my short life I have only seen three colors. Purple, which I already explained, green and yellow. Green aura usually means the girl is high maintenance and only sees green in her future and only wants it. I stay away from green no matter how sweet the fruit looks. Now as far as yellow goes, these girls usually are sweet and adorable. I like to meet these types but usually just end up being friends. Now as far as auras go, you can only determine it when you first meet them (so don't come up to me asking me what aura you are!).
Another system I created was the knife and fork chicks. No they are not the best looking women who can cook and they are not the chicks who will stab you for doing something wrong. They are the type of women who look delicious, literally so you can eat them with a knife and fork ( and if they too juicy you got to pull out your spoon!) Now knife and fork chicks can range from 8s to straight dimes. To be a knife and fork chick you got to have three things. A seductive frame, mean shoe game and the walk of an angel. All three compliment each other, so its necessary to have all three. The good thing about a knife and fork chick is that you don't HAVE to be the best looking out the bunch, nor the classiest, but in some mens eyes they would eat you like a steak dinner.
The last system was inspired by a Bounty commercial. In the commercial, a father and son spill something on the floor. Before cleaning it, they analyze if they want to use three or four sheets to clean it up. Mom quickly comes in and cleans it with one. My system is a little different from theres because the more the better. When seeing some females you just want to "take care" of them all night long and that would demand three sheets. And if she a good,typical fuck that would require two sheets and one sheeter is needed if you just want to test the waters with a female. The legendary four sheeter should only be used if you are ready to get the girl preggo ASAP. I try not to jinx myself, so I don't even let those words come out my mouth. Well with that in mind, fellas and ladies jus don't make the screwface when I say some wild shit.

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new new school.

"I wouldn't be mad if he (Chris Paul) won the MVP" - tone.

This years playoffs have been boring and entertaining at the same time. Kobe Bryants Lakers are top dogs again, teams like the Pistons and Celtics seem ready for a championship run and the damn two face commercials just keep popping up. But this post isn't about the playoffs, its about the emerging superstars who are coming to the forefront on a national stage to show why the NBA will be safe again for another ten years. The world already knows about LeBron James, I am a witness and so are you. But for the average joe blow newcomers are showing themselves to the world on the grandest stage. First, there is Chris Paul. The 23 year old NC native from Wake Forest who is on the brink of leading his New Orleans Hornets to the Conference Finals. Paul does it with supreme passion and poise. When I see Paul play I think of a mix between Isiah Thomas and John Stockton. He has the scoring ability and tenacity of Zeke but the general like command on the floor like Stockton. Paul finished second in MVP voting to the Darth Kobe, but Paul's time will come soon enough. Another bright star who's playoff dreams ended a few hours ago is Dwight Howard. Now the world caught a glimpse of his showmanship as he took home the Slam Dunk Title but still the average joe doesn't know about him. Living under Patrick Ewing's wing, Howard has blossomed ever since entering the league straight from high school. After dominating 20-20 performances in the first round, Howard's Magic will would shortly fizzle out as the Pistons took them down. The great thing about Howard is that he is so young (22) and so good already. With moves as quick as Olajuwon and already being named as the most athletic center ever, Howard must now show and prove. The knock on his game as of late has been his inability to have the killer instinct. You know the thing you know the thing you see in Kobe's eyes when its crunch time or when the team is in need of a basket. Well, Howard has yet to develop that. I believe with hard work and a more competitve edge, Howard could average 30-15-5 if he wanted to, but time will tell. With these two at the forefront and Durant and Oden just getting out of there shell, the NBA should be safe. Lets not forget about Rose and Beasley coming to the land of Men next season either.

Complete list..

G - Chris Paul - New Orleans - 23
C - Dwight Howard - Orlando - 22
G/F - Kevin Durant - Seattle - 20
C - Greg Oden - Portland - 20
G - Deron Williams - Utah - 23
G - Monta Ellis - Golden State - 23
G/F - Rudy Gay - Memphis - 22
G - Derrick Rose - Univ. of Memphis -19
F - Michael Beasley - Kansas St Univ. - 19

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welcome to the souf.

"you like this shit?" -lovetrain.

After black quarterbacks, the most scrutinized and talked about subject in the barbershop would have to be the evolution of the southern movement in hip hop. Heated debate surface as people against the southern movement believe their lyrics have no substance and are all beat driven records. This may be true in most cases, but I sincerely believe that the southern movement is hip hop, just a different sector. REAL hip hop consists of the Commons, Lupe Fiascos and Nas' that move more bootlegged units than anyone. The club music based hip hop that consists of the Unks, Soulja Boys and TPains all move there units through ringtones. Yes, there music may have kid-like lines and attract more girls to the dance floor than usual but hip hop is in need of something new and refreshing. Can you imagine going to the strip club and Big Booty Judy is dancing to "American Terrorist" or "One Mic"? NO! So the DJ will continue to play the dance oriented tunes, because it makes the club go off and its the best music to listen to when you are drunk. I guarantee if you have enough shots of vodka or tequila you WILL be yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuling by the end of the night. But seriously, the southern movement isn't a trend or bout to die down soon. And thats jus real talk.

NOTE: I don't support all of it. I can only take it in doses. REAL rap will revive one day. Wale & Cool Kids this Fall!

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the under twenty-three rule.

"man its TOO many joints out here" - thump.

One word that scares the shit out of any black man is marriage. The M Word. To us, it means we will never see another va-jay-jay ever again but our wife's. Its very complex, because most of us want to settle down and find that special someone and start that perfect family, but its the fear of having one woman. But fellas, no more worrying, I have found the solution. Due to excessive successful black women emerging through all walks of life as engineers, businesswomen and entrepreneurs (horray!), it seems like the black man has many many options. As expected many of my fellow "brothers" still want to live that thug lifestyle, but hey thats another blog anyway. So that results in a limited supply of young black men who are trying to better themselves. Now for those who are, the selection of females is endless so finding the right woman may be tough. I believe for any man wanting to have that white picket fence and four children with the two car garage they MUST sew their wild oats first. In doing so, every man under the age of 23, trying to better themself has the RIGHT to be a whore and venture out into EVERYTHING. Even though this sounds dangerous and crazy I think it may be worth it, because when its all said and done and your waiting at the end of that aisle and your bride is walking down patiently, you will thank me. I estimate for every guy that fits my criteria to every girl that fits my criteria, we are outnumbered to a 1:10 ratio. But please fellas to every rule there are standards. For one, use a condom. The second is to not get emotional attachment and if you feel emotional attachment from her you need to get out of there ASAP! The last is to actually get to know these females. Even though she let you fuck in a week, she might be wifey. She might have everything you want and you just don't know it yet. If you actually try to get to know these ladies half aren't bad, a few are worth your time and one might even be the ONE. Godspeed goons.

NOTE: Ladies if you live this lifestyle you ARE a whore. Plain and simple. And yes, double standards do exist.

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overlooked&unappreciated.

"nigga have you seen the uncut Nelly video!" - marley.

In 2007, BET created a forum to talk about the state of hip hop. The panel included intellectuals like Eric Michael Dyson and Rev. Al Sharpton and rap artists like T.I. and Nelly. In heated debates talking about everything from music effecting kids to the language and subjects in songs, the forum seemed to be against hip hop. But one aspect that got shafted in the rear with no vaseline was the state of the hip hop honeys. The forum seemed to believe that most of these girls are individuals who do not respect themselves and just believe they are a piece of meat. But in there defense I am here. I love these women, from there high cheekbones to curvacious bods. These women saved many rappers and video directors careers. Some even lasted longer than most rappers. Now don't get me wrong these women sometimes do portray themselves to be bitches, hoes, sluts and such but wasn't Halle Berry taking backshots from Billy Bob Thornton? And she won an Oscar. To me its all acting and some people can't get around that factor. For years, I worshiped these woman, because as a young adolescent these females are our goddesses and mermaids of TV. In time you have seen the pretty face innocent video chick (Lauren London) to the straight stacked full rib rack bods (Buffy the Body) and all have captured our "minds" at a time. I really appreciate these women. They are more than meets the eye and I really believe they deserve more respect in the game. This post is for you ladies, all of you.

NOTE: Melyssa Ford is the best to ever do it.

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obama fresh.

"dog, obama is where its at" - flyyguyy

It seems to me that Barack Obama has brought a great stir into the presidential debate as of late, great! This isn't a blog about voting for Obama or even displaying his views. This blog is about how people are eating off of this man and not even sitting at the table. At first, I thought they were pretty cool, I cant lie. But it seems now, that each and every clothing company is manufacturing, producing and distributing Obama tees. In 2004, Puff created a juggernaut with the Vote or Die tees and now every company is following in his footsteps. Its just amazing to me how one man who some people don't even support are making his clothes and selling his campaign. And to the buyers of these tees I just want to know ask you are you a fashion icon or actually in faithful support of the Illinois Senator. Do you know his political standpoint or views on America, Iraq, health care and the middle class? I believe before you put on your favorite Obama tee, the least you can do is learn about him and his motives and not just to hop on the bandwagon.

NOTE: obama WILL be KING.

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birth control & the young black female.

"man im jus praying for a period" - lovetrain

As a college student at a HBCU, there are many things yoiu can find yourself getting into that can't get yourself out of. For instance, I myself had to take a few accounting classes twice due to my inability to perform adequately in the classroom, but life goes on. In some peoples decision at any university sex, drugs and alcohol are the easiest escapes from the college stressors and pressures. But in high consumption of any of the three, may lead to ones addiction, injury or even death. But in sex, the worst case scenario, besides HIV, is pregnancy. I believe there is no way of getting around having sex in the college atmosphere. The whole, no-parenting-endless-freedom-too-much-free-time is just asking for someone to commit premarital intercourse. But what hurts me the most, is to see young black females with there head on straight and ready to rip the world into pieces get pregnant. It seems that the more you have sex with a person the more you feel comfortable with them, which may lead to not using a condom. Now, I know she can't help if a guy decides not to put on protection, but as a black female you must be ready for any and everything out here so I don't see why more black women are on birth control. If you are a young black woman and you KNOW you are sexually active why not get the shot, pill, patch, etc. There have been too many advancements in science to not want to protect yourself. I believe no one at this age is ready for a child financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I understand there are a few side effects like weight gain, mood swings and such but if I were a female i would be on birth control ASAP. Another weird factor is once getting preggo, females have to make the decision of to keep the child or abort it. No woman should be forced to make such a choice like that, so to avoid that all together, I suggest you (the female) to get on birth control. Everyone knows birth control can be a rough transition when first getting on it, but is it not worth it. I've seen too many go down the broken road of leaving there dreams or delaying them for a baby. In this day in time, the condoms seem to be getting thinner and the sex is becoming more demanding. Protect yourself and your future ladies, please. There is way too much at stake for you to be starting a family now.

SIDENOTE: Any female that has had a baby or is having a baby that is under 23 or having a child that is unexpected I praise you. You are stronger than you ever thought you were and you and your healthy baby is still here. This blog is not here to attack you, but to give light to the younger sisters of your generation to be aware and know whats going on. I am not trying to bash you or hate on you. I love you.

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the maryland dynasty.

"if Gary Williams recruited in PG County, the Terps would have two rings" - anonymous

In recent years college basketball has been on the forefront of sports entertainment. From Florida's consecutive national championships to all four #1 seeds playing in the Final Four in this years past tourney, college basketball is at an all-time high. But if look far down off of 495, the Maryland Terrapins are suffering from another lack luster season. Even with Gist, Osby and Grieves the Terps still couldn't go dancing. I believe that in college basketball, the coaches should be accounted for coaching methods and recruitng methods. Which brings me to my subject of Gary Williams and his style. Over the past few years the metro area has seen some ridiculous talent fly through and above and out the area. This list includes freshmen phenom Michael Beasley from K St and last years freshmen sensation and this years NBA Rookie of the Year Kevin Durant, just to name a few. My question is why isn't Williams recruiting within his own territory. In the year, LSU shared a piece of the national championship in football, half the team was from Louisiana. I just don't see why Williams doesn't do the same. Through the years I can think back I can only recall ONE terp to get significant minutes and be from the area-Chris McCray. McCray came from Fairmont Heights and lit my alma mater (DuVal) up for 34 points in a playoff game in his senior season. McCray was part of the last decent and somewhat good Terp team with him, Caner-Medley, Gilchrist and such. But due to players leaving early, the team would go through a dry spell and die out to become mediocre in its present day. All I want is Williams to take a look at some of the hungry and raw talent that comes from these parts. I can not stand to see anymore talent from this area play in any other color than Terrapin Red.

Complete list..

F - Michael Beasley - DC - Kansas St.
F - Kevin Durant - PG - Texas
F - Jeff Green - PG - GTown
C - Roy Hibbert - Mo Co - GTown
G - Tywan Lawson - DC - UNC
G - Sam Young - PG - Pitt
G - Nolan Smith - PG - Duke

o well.

And by the way, I love my terps. They play hard and work hard. I appreciate any player to ever put on the Terrapin Red.

T E R P S!

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sneakers for the summer.

"and i sport fly shit, I should win an SB" - k.hill

thru all of my addictions one that has fastened my life and ran with me forever is my love for kicks. Over the past year or so, i have dove into a new underground-nike SBs. Shoes created for skateboarding purposes have now grown to be a sneaker gods' bible. With its vibrant colorways and patterns the shoes are ALL the same but different in its own way.

Here are some that are out or soon to be out this coming summer..
Ferris Buellers.


http://www.nicekicks.com/nike-sb-ferris-bueller-dunks


Thrashin.


http://www.kicksonfire.com/2008/02/21/nike-dunk-high-sb-thrashin-detailed-pictures


720



http://www.kicksonfire.com/2007/10/28/nike-dunk-low-sb-720-degrees


Bonus material..


Here are the Back to the Future II. Inspired by Marty McFly from Back to the Future, the movie series. Just a concept SB for now, but SHOULD hit shelves as soon as possible.




http://www.nikeskateboarding.org/index.php/2008/05/02/back-to-the-future-dunk-high

Now I know this aint some of yalls style but to me all these SBs are money in the bank. Fuck wit me!

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who is this guy?

I am twenty something black college student addicted to the wrong things in life-sneakers,sports,women&music. I was born and raised in Gorgeous Prince George's County in Maryland and currently receiving a BS degree in accounting from NC A&T SU. Most of my close friends call me funny, clever, rude and crazy, but through it all I am just me. I believe I am just a nerd trapped into a cool guy's frame [lol]. I feel like I am about to bring a very informal style to the world of blogging and show some real imagery too. I am currently a server as well as a full-time student so I will tell some of the true stories of serving guests in the south. And to note, I am not a big typer so expect to see short stories and few extended paragraphs and lots of grammatical errors. This is my first time blogging so please be patient with me.

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the start.

Hey, my name is Terry Mundell and over the past year or so I have debated on whether I would want to start or blog or not. But due to supreme boredom I said what the hell. In this blog you will find everything to music reviews to sneaker reports to sports analysis to an occasional porn drop. And on a more serious note I will discuss some of my ideologies and theories on the black community and culture. No I am no doctor, nor philosopher, but I think I do have a voice so this is why I am creating this blog. Some of the things I may say here you may find offensive, inappropriate or down right ignorant, but before judging me listen to what I have to say and my reason behind it. i really hope you become an avid viewer of the blog and comment on everything.

Enjoy your stay and welcome to ignorant nipple!

i-n.