"Im just waiting to wake up from this dream" -cupcake.
You can talk to her for hours. You miss her as soon as she leaves. And when the grown up is done, the grown up is DONE. The infatuation phase might be the best phase in the converting friends into lovers. To me the phase is very blinding though. At this part of the relationship, even though its not a certified nor exclusive, all you notice is the good things. The bad things seem to be irrelevant due to us being young, black and alone we seem to cling to one another. Even though they may smack when they eat or be a constant phone checker, these slight things are nothing in the infatuation phase. The lust is deep and the love looks to be real, but is it a figment of our imagination or isn't it? That is the question we must ask when any of us falls head over heels for a new fling. Is this a summer fling that will grow into winter love just to be split into a spring break? Love has many tricks and turns, but one thing for certain is that the new found infatuation in meeting a new being will be there. Its always good to think optimistic, but then there are times were you need to be pessimistic. Black love is beautiful, but sometimes can be blinded to be black lust if the sex is overwhelming and the physical attraction is fatal. Listen to your mind, but trust your heart ladies and gentlemen. The infatuation phase is a motherfucker.
NOTE: Fellas I suggest you do background checks, credit card checks and ask around about a female before claiming anything.
i-n.
2 comments:
i agree with you wholeheartedly... i believe it is the thought of being alone that some will settle for anything or believe that the person they are dealing will eventually change for the better or even they will be acceptable to their behavior... whatever the case it should be well thought out.
interesting post i must say. however, just because things change after infatuation doesnt mean that they will change for the worst. of course some of the excitement and butterflies will fade, but perhaps if its a good thing you got goin, the trust and the understanding will build. it could be growth instead and progression instead of being one dimentional you kno? its a hard lesson to learn none the less i feel you tho..
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