cool kids.

Since coming back from Greensboro, NC to Lanham, MD there are many differences. The cost of living is obviously cheaper in the south and the fast pace life of the metro area isn't fueled by college students like Greensboro. And in Greensboro, there are a few clubs, but nothing is compared to the DC club scene except for other large markets like LA or Miami. Now in this club scene, you see women of all colors, creeds, cultures and backgrounds. But one consistent fact that remains in ALL of these women are the "cool" factor. 98% of the girls in the club have to look a certain way, walk a certain, etc. All showing that they are "cooler" than the rest or "flyer" than the rest. Ladies, trust me, every man loves a woman that is confident within themselves and carries themselves well, but BEING COOL 24/7 IS NOT COOL. In NC, girls are more laid back and confident through there personality, not just through there outer appearance. Thats exactly how I found my beautiful girlfriend (lol). I feel girls "back home" are more picky and focus too much on looks. Now I'm not ugly and I don't have a problem pulling the BEST of them, but there are times when my mans are unrightfully turned down when just based off looks/style/SWAGGER (don't get me started) alone. Thats that bullshit, but whatever. All I'm asking is for you to take off your cool. Bat your eyes, take a chance and DANCE! If you feel otherwise, and your happy where you at in life stay cool my fair lady. Now this blog wouldn't be fair if I didn't share any light on the fellas. Fellas take off your cool too. Stop paying attention to the guy next to you and let the small shit go. Yes, he bumped you on accident and yes, he stepped on your shoes on accident, let that shit go. Be cool 3000! And when in the club atmosphere, you must realize that just because you seen Jeezy on WorldStarHipHip.com have hoes run to him doesn't mean the same will happen to you. The club scene is not a hip hop video. In conclusion, I just want you guys and gals to check out an old hip hop video, like mid 90s. Any random one. People were having pure fun in there and just living in the moment. I feel like in the area people want to be the moment instead of living it. But o well, to each is own.

i-n.