Monday, May 26, 2008
this is mines, that is yours.
"shes the dame whos the username to all my passwords" - lupe.
I really wonder why the guy/girl that came up with the password to the cell phone was thinking. We all know its there for security and protection for if your cell phone is lost or stolen, but what about spousal abuse? You know the insecure girlfriend that wants to know your every move or the little side joint that just wants to know your business. This can be annoying and irritable for the average man. And ladies I know there are men out there that do the same things. So my question is why not calm down the emotions and relax. My first argument is that it is 2008 people. Plenty of people like myself put very personal and intimate things in our cell phones, because the cell phone can do damn near everything. My second argument is why be so insecure. I trust you, you trust me. There is no need to verify trust by digging through phones and emails. The last argument would have to be if I don't go through yours, why go through mines? That is just self explanatory. And then I know there are some men and women out there that are in relationships that share passwords, but still keep there cell phones to themselves. This is cool for now, but when times get tough the questions will fly and come at a rapid pace. Next thing you know, you might have to hide your cell phone. Thats why I believe the cell phone and password sharing should be kept to ones self. Now I am not married nor planning to in the near future so I can't answer this question for the newlyweds. Enter with your own caution.
i-n.
I really wonder why the guy/girl that came up with the password to the cell phone was thinking. We all know its there for security and protection for if your cell phone is lost or stolen, but what about spousal abuse? You know the insecure girlfriend that wants to know your every move or the little side joint that just wants to know your business. This can be annoying and irritable for the average man. And ladies I know there are men out there that do the same things. So my question is why not calm down the emotions and relax. My first argument is that it is 2008 people. Plenty of people like myself put very personal and intimate things in our cell phones, because the cell phone can do damn near everything. My second argument is why be so insecure. I trust you, you trust me. There is no need to verify trust by digging through phones and emails. The last argument would have to be if I don't go through yours, why go through mines? That is just self explanatory. And then I know there are some men and women out there that are in relationships that share passwords, but still keep there cell phones to themselves. This is cool for now, but when times get tough the questions will fly and come at a rapid pace. Next thing you know, you might have to hide your cell phone. Thats why I believe the cell phone and password sharing should be kept to ones self. Now I am not married nor planning to in the near future so I can't answer this question for the newlyweds. Enter with your own caution.
i-n.
Sunday, May 25, 2008
how to ... with Karrine 'Superhead' Steffans.
xxxvidstream.blogspot.com/2008/05/
hip-hops-1-groupie-superhead-with-mr.html
i broke the link up so your kid sister won't view it..
copy and paste the link above in your address box.
watch-learn-practice-master
ENJOY!
NOTE: If you want to KEEP your man at bay, I suggest you learn.
i-n.
all eyes on me!
"braceface! sit your ass down" - dj alize.
You know as a twenty some odd year older, one of the best privileges you have is going to the club. The whole nightlife experience, from the pre-gaming to the false realities of bringing a breezy back to the crib is fascinating. As a youngster we saw our parents, uncles and aunts, cousins, older siblings and eventually us enjoy this lifestyle. Drinks will overflow, fights will happen and someone will have to babysit their best friend tonight. All of these situations regularly happen at the club. But then again these situations can be avoided or put to some type of rest. However, there are unavoidable and irritating people in the club like the SUPER bouncer, because he has to be more annoying than a mall cop or the wack ass DJ who thinks hes keeping the party going. But to top these two I would like you to meet the attention whore. YES, the attention whore. Every song is HER song. She knows the the words to EVERY song. Vodka is pouring from out her sweat glands and her freekum dress continues to rise to no mans surprise. Her eyes are damn near shut but her mouth continues to run. For some reason she knows too many people in this club and her hair is all but gone. You know if you read that again, you would think I'm talking about a birthday girl of some sort, but I'm not. See usually thats where the attention whore messes up psychologically. She thinks its her birthday and wants all the attention on her, but no. Ladies, I give you one day out the year to be the biggest attention whore all you want to be, but if I continually see you in the club acting like its your birthday we have a problem. But the bad thing about REAL attention whores, some don't need the club lights to hit them or the mimosa to run through them. For some its their nature to be loud and proud. When you talk to them, they dominate the conversation. When you see them in the streets, you can hear them from a block away. Either all of these girls had a sibling who stole the attention from them as a youth, were the only child or just love to have all on eyes them. Sometimes I can understand why these girls act like this. Usually two or three girls in their crew look better than them so they have to compensate for the attention distribution. See what you have to understand attention whores is that your really getting bad attention. Don't no real man want an attention grabbing female that gets it through her mouth. And I'm not saying that the quietest are the best, but ladies if you actually want to pull something that is worth something, please calm down. The real attention getters are the ones who stand out through appearance, not volume.
NOTE: You can be an attention whore through non-verbal communication too. i.e. - dancing on chairs, tables, poles, etc.
i-n.
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
phone tag. YOUR it.
"ima call you back" -anonymous.
You know in a world where texting and sending messages seems to be the best way of communication, nothing is better than a simple phone conversation. You know just to check up on someone or even to arrange a meeting between the two. But in todays world, calling is just used for delivery orders, calling Wachovia to say that you lost your debit card and to check on moms every once in a while. However, not too long ago there was a time where you would call a lady of interest and actually get to know them and care for them in some type a way. Some days you would call her and as soon as she picked up the phone, she says, "I'll call you back." Being the gentleman you are you let her call you back. But by the time you are ready to go to bed, still no call back. Now this is where it gets tricky people. Do you call back even though she said she will call you back or send a polite text saying "goodnite" or one saying "i wish i woulda got a call back." Now the next day is here, you check your phone and still no text back or call. Now the same three options come up in yout head again but its more like fuck it. You may be in love, in lust or just plain infatuated with the conuterpart, but any and everyone hates to chase some one down. As if your the only one that wants to chill. Not calling back is a serious disease that is going around in our communities. Just a simple, "im sleepy" text will be a good enough for some. In conclusion, ladies and fellas too, you must drop this habit before that someone is fed up and just wont accept you for who you are any more.
NOTE: Excuses are tools of the incompetent.
You know in a world where texting and sending messages seems to be the best way of communication, nothing is better than a simple phone conversation. You know just to check up on someone or even to arrange a meeting between the two. But in todays world, calling is just used for delivery orders, calling Wachovia to say that you lost your debit card and to check on moms every once in a while. However, not too long ago there was a time where you would call a lady of interest and actually get to know them and care for them in some type a way. Some days you would call her and as soon as she picked up the phone, she says, "I'll call you back." Being the gentleman you are you let her call you back. But by the time you are ready to go to bed, still no call back. Now this is where it gets tricky people. Do you call back even though she said she will call you back or send a polite text saying "goodnite" or one saying "i wish i woulda got a call back." Now the next day is here, you check your phone and still no text back or call. Now the same three options come up in yout head again but its more like fuck it. You may be in love, in lust or just plain infatuated with the conuterpart, but any and everyone hates to chase some one down. As if your the only one that wants to chill. Not calling back is a serious disease that is going around in our communities. Just a simple, "im sleepy" text will be a good enough for some. In conclusion, ladies and fellas too, you must drop this habit before that someone is fed up and just wont accept you for who you are any more.
NOTE: Excuses are tools of the incompetent.
Monday, May 19, 2008
selfish&greedy.
"i couldn't pull out, it was toooo.." - lovetrain.
My brothers, my brothers. No matter what social class you reside in, what hood you belong too or even what size white tee you wear, we are all brothers in the same struggle as being a black man in America. Through all the dumb shit I have seen in my days from guys fighting over stepping on shoes or colors by far the dumbest is nutting IN girls without a condom on. That is just the purest sign of greed and selfishness. You know the consequences of going in there raw already, THEN you nut IN her. I just don't get it. I, personally, have gone raw before and it is an unreal and undescrible feeling. But I don't know about you guys, but when I feel the Big Kahuna coming I automatically here baby screams and get the hell out of there. If you are going to go raw the least you can do is pull out for the girl's sake. You don't have to go through nine months of pain, irritation and hostility. This blog is basically about pulling out and respecting the female you are sharing the experience with. You got to remember my brothers this isn't all about you, neither is it all about her, its a shared experience. So why not have a great ending by just pulling out and if necessary, splashing on her belly or back. Too many of my brothers fall into the trap of early parenthood and not ready for the responsibility that a child brings. None of us are naturally ready to raise a child but forced to, therefore leading to a domino effect of uncertainties. And to my brothers out there that have had a child due to greediness, keep pushing and keep your head up. Raise the child to the best of your abilities and don't become a statistic or cliche. Our generation is already defined as troublemakers and fuckups, so why add to the madness? Sometimes life just comes down to the most simple choices and decisions. Think with your mind guys, not your heads!
i-n.
My brothers, my brothers. No matter what social class you reside in, what hood you belong too or even what size white tee you wear, we are all brothers in the same struggle as being a black man in America. Through all the dumb shit I have seen in my days from guys fighting over stepping on shoes or colors by far the dumbest is nutting IN girls without a condom on. That is just the purest sign of greed and selfishness. You know the consequences of going in there raw already, THEN you nut IN her. I just don't get it. I, personally, have gone raw before and it is an unreal and undescrible feeling. But I don't know about you guys, but when I feel the Big Kahuna coming I automatically here baby screams and get the hell out of there. If you are going to go raw the least you can do is pull out for the girl's sake. You don't have to go through nine months of pain, irritation and hostility. This blog is basically about pulling out and respecting the female you are sharing the experience with. You got to remember my brothers this isn't all about you, neither is it all about her, its a shared experience. So why not have a great ending by just pulling out and if necessary, splashing on her belly or back. Too many of my brothers fall into the trap of early parenthood and not ready for the responsibility that a child brings. None of us are naturally ready to raise a child but forced to, therefore leading to a domino effect of uncertainties. And to my brothers out there that have had a child due to greediness, keep pushing and keep your head up. Raise the child to the best of your abilities and don't become a statistic or cliche. Our generation is already defined as troublemakers and fuckups, so why add to the madness? Sometimes life just comes down to the most simple choices and decisions. Think with your mind guys, not your heads!
i-n.
rick ross ft. nelly - here i am/maybach music
one of my favorite joints from the CD.
nelly holds his own.
cool concept to the vid.
seems like they actually put thought and work into it.
check your mans side ponytail tho. my god!
i-n.
Sunday, May 18, 2008
the prince that shall be KING.
"He is a crybaby" - hater.
You know his name. You know is face. You know his numbers. But did you know ever since the ripe age of 14, LeBron James has had a camera in his face and a microphone near his mouth? Just a few hours ago, James' season came to a thrilling end as the Cavaliers lost to the Celtics. He gave quite a heroic performance with 45 points, five rebounds and six assists. However, this blog isn't about his shortcomings or his progressed play over the past five seasons in the NBA. LeBron has been living with the pressures to be perfect for forever it seems. Now after this loss, every newspaper column you read and every analyst you will see tomorrow will say LeBron isn't clutch or LeBron can't get it done. They will say LeBron can't shoot a midrange jumper and that he doesn't have enough killer instinct. But all I want to ask those naysayers is this - "Could you do it?" The young prodigy has been living with a monkey on his back since grade school. Trying to be perfect, trying to please everyone and be liked by all. But the one thing James has to get over before reaching the mountain top is to say "Fuck the media, I'm going to do me." To me it seems the endorsements and being the face of the NBA holds him back from doing his natural motives. In the opening round series with the Washington Wizards, LeBron was caught in a fueling grudge match with some Wizards guard. Throughout the series, words and blows would be exchanged, eventually leading to LeBron getting the last laugh by advancing to the next round. However, I believe LeBron lost the mental battle and let the Wizards get into his head. LeBron played like shit the following two games, but ultimately woke up too late. I understand him and Stern have a business relationship and that he has over $100 million in endorsements, but it comes a time where a man has to be a man. Magic won without Kareem, Jordan took down the Pistons and Kobe left Shaq. Now I am asking LeBron to bitchslap the media, the endorsements and even the NBA if possible. There is a killer that lives within James and the world is holding him back from displaying it. At times through the playoffs I saw glimpses of the killer and that no one could touch him but himself. In the 2008-2009 season, expect to see a new James. He will have a gold medal from the Olympics around his neck and know the feeling of being part of a championship team. Which should result in him trying even harder to reach that legendary status amongst the greats. In conclusion, the microscope and magnifying glass can be on him for only so long before he reacts back. Only in due time, we will ALL be witnesses.
NOTE: LBJ doesn't NEED a jumper. I think if he adds a significant floater and better pump fake his points will increase and field goal percentage rise.
i-n.
the pains of a minuteman.
"you got to be kidding me!?!?!" - anonymous.
Do you ladies really know how powerful pussy is? I really believe you ladies underestimate how GREAT it is. The whole perplexity and the demographics of the vagina are just amazing. The delicate tenderness, the instant moisture and the distinct, yet amusing aroma all make her to be an unstoppable force in a man's mind. I am not trying to put the pussy on a pedestal, but it does deserve its credit. Through time EVERY man will slip up at least once and get caught off guard by the power the pussy holds. Now once caught off guard, a man feels embarrassed, shocked and sometimes even mad at himself, because his mind was prepared for a long session. But sometimes Mr. Know it All will have its way. Now ladies here is the key point. He is sitting there damn near suicidal and lost and he is just looking for some type of comfort or relief. Please don't make fun of his shortcomings or overreact to the situation. In my own personal adventure of minutemanness, I and other peers of mine personally like when the female "talks shit" or challenges us to finish the job. Its so surreal, because 90% of black males played little league sports and all of us had that one coached that pushed us to the limit and we thank him for that. But back to the topic at hand, this is just one way of ending the madness to the quick start. Another possible way of consoling a man to a burnout is to "take care of him"-you know, a little kiss here, little kiss there, etc. In the end, ladies can you just remember that the pussy is powerful and being caught off guard is a serious matter. Be considerate and please get him back up, because more than likely that second time around will blow your mind.
i-n.
Do you ladies really know how powerful pussy is? I really believe you ladies underestimate how GREAT it is. The whole perplexity and the demographics of the vagina are just amazing. The delicate tenderness, the instant moisture and the distinct, yet amusing aroma all make her to be an unstoppable force in a man's mind. I am not trying to put the pussy on a pedestal, but it does deserve its credit. Through time EVERY man will slip up at least once and get caught off guard by the power the pussy holds. Now once caught off guard, a man feels embarrassed, shocked and sometimes even mad at himself, because his mind was prepared for a long session. But sometimes Mr. Know it All will have its way. Now ladies here is the key point. He is sitting there damn near suicidal and lost and he is just looking for some type of comfort or relief. Please don't make fun of his shortcomings or overreact to the situation. In my own personal adventure of minutemanness, I and other peers of mine personally like when the female "talks shit" or challenges us to finish the job. Its so surreal, because 90% of black males played little league sports and all of us had that one coached that pushed us to the limit and we thank him for that. But back to the topic at hand, this is just one way of ending the madness to the quick start. Another possible way of consoling a man to a burnout is to "take care of him"-you know, a little kiss here, little kiss there, etc. In the end, ladies can you just remember that the pussy is powerful and being caught off guard is a serious matter. Be considerate and please get him back up, because more than likely that second time around will blow your mind.
i-n.
Friday, May 16, 2008
three headed monster.
"He doesn't love me" -possum.
Love is a very powerful thing. It can bring two people together and bring years of bliss and happiness, sometimes even create a family. But as young adults in a sex, money and violence driven society, love is sometimes blinded by those demons. But those demons don't make up this monster. This monster is a black man in a society where they don't want him to succeed or find love. In the journey for love and the ONE he will meet rollers, hoes, flings, flirts, affairs and babymamas. These women aren't necessarily BAD for you, because they do teach you some lessons and the different instances in which their mind works. To me, these women are only classified as the way they are because of the brain(s) they can control on a man. A man has three brains-mind, heart and you know the other. His mind is the logical one out of the bunch. He is the best decision maker and is the only that can stop you know who from moving forward. The heart is more like the soul and the thinker of the bunch. As for Mr. Know it All, he doesn't think at all and only goes off of feeling. Now with all these three different personalities conformed into one, all have their faults. The mind thinks too much sometimes and can lead to over-analyzed decisions. The heart is a very emotional brain. For instance, when scorned the heart will disapprove of you automatically. Mr. Know it All is the one who's biggest downfall is just being about feeling. It might sound absurd but no matter how much he is love, Mr. Know it All will takeover. In essence, ladies if you want to find and keep hubby, you must have control and manifest over all three of his brains. In the ladies I listed before all of them controlled or manifested one or some of the three, but wifey is the special one that will make a man commit and be true to himself and his spouse. Through this, love and happiness will exist.
love.peace&hairgrease.
i-n.
Love is a very powerful thing. It can bring two people together and bring years of bliss and happiness, sometimes even create a family. But as young adults in a sex, money and violence driven society, love is sometimes blinded by those demons. But those demons don't make up this monster. This monster is a black man in a society where they don't want him to succeed or find love. In the journey for love and the ONE he will meet rollers, hoes, flings, flirts, affairs and babymamas. These women aren't necessarily BAD for you, because they do teach you some lessons and the different instances in which their mind works. To me, these women are only classified as the way they are because of the brain(s) they can control on a man. A man has three brains-mind, heart and you know the other. His mind is the logical one out of the bunch. He is the best decision maker and is the only that can stop you know who from moving forward. The heart is more like the soul and the thinker of the bunch. As for Mr. Know it All, he doesn't think at all and only goes off of feeling. Now with all these three different personalities conformed into one, all have their faults. The mind thinks too much sometimes and can lead to over-analyzed decisions. The heart is a very emotional brain. For instance, when scorned the heart will disapprove of you automatically. Mr. Know it All is the one who's biggest downfall is just being about feeling. It might sound absurd but no matter how much he is love, Mr. Know it All will takeover. In essence, ladies if you want to find and keep hubby, you must have control and manifest over all three of his brains. In the ladies I listed before all of them controlled or manifested one or some of the three, but wifey is the special one that will make a man commit and be true to himself and his spouse. Through this, love and happiness will exist.
love.peace&hairgrease.
i-n.
wonder woman's kryptonite.
"what happened to her???" - dean.
You know out of all the different kinds of women I have seen in my short life, non compare to a black woman. They are strong, opinionated and beautiful women. They come in all sizes from thick to petite and from tall to small. But for every wonder woman they must have a kryptonite. And in the case of these wonder women, metabolism is their kryptonite. Now metabolism is basically what breaks down food in your body, therefore, as you grow older your metabolism becomes slower. Which leads to females metabolisms slow up around the college years and thats why "Freshmen 20" or "Post Grad 20" exist. Unlike Superman, you all can fight your kryptonite. The easiest step is to go to the gym. Yes, sex is excerise, but its mostly cardio. In the gym, you can get rid of that newly acquired double chin, muffin top, cottage cheese on your legs and proportion all of that thickness into the right places. Im not asking all of you to aim to be Angela Basset or Jackie Joyner-Kersey, but have some type of pride. I notice, you notice and your mama notice that you are gaining weight so why not make a change? I suggest you and a couple of friends go there and work out with each other, you know just like how you all started drinking together. Yes, the first week will burn and you might not see results immediately but it will all pan out in the end. Right now only lames are trying to get at you, so why not go to the gym and get even more lames to stalk you? This blog isn't just an effort to get your torso right and ass phat but just to stay fit. Our grandmothers and grandfathers didn't know about diabetes, different types of cancers and such so why play ignorant to the fact and get your mind and body right. I really hope this blog inspires you to go hit the gym or even if your currently fit to bring a friend with you. Your already have the beauty ladies, so why not try to have th e life long beauty.
NOTE: Excuses are tools of the incompetent.
You know out of all the different kinds of women I have seen in my short life, non compare to a black woman. They are strong, opinionated and beautiful women. They come in all sizes from thick to petite and from tall to small. But for every wonder woman they must have a kryptonite. And in the case of these wonder women, metabolism is their kryptonite. Now metabolism is basically what breaks down food in your body, therefore, as you grow older your metabolism becomes slower. Which leads to females metabolisms slow up around the college years and thats why "Freshmen 20" or "Post Grad 20" exist. Unlike Superman, you all can fight your kryptonite. The easiest step is to go to the gym. Yes, sex is excerise, but its mostly cardio. In the gym, you can get rid of that newly acquired double chin, muffin top, cottage cheese on your legs and proportion all of that thickness into the right places. Im not asking all of you to aim to be Angela Basset or Jackie Joyner-Kersey, but have some type of pride. I notice, you notice and your mama notice that you are gaining weight so why not make a change? I suggest you and a couple of friends go there and work out with each other, you know just like how you all started drinking together. Yes, the first week will burn and you might not see results immediately but it will all pan out in the end. Right now only lames are trying to get at you, so why not go to the gym and get even more lames to stalk you? This blog isn't just an effort to get your torso right and ass phat but just to stay fit. Our grandmothers and grandfathers didn't know about diabetes, different types of cancers and such so why play ignorant to the fact and get your mind and body right. I really hope this blog inspires you to go hit the gym or even if your currently fit to bring a friend with you. Your already have the beauty ladies, so why not try to have th e life long beauty.
NOTE: Excuses are tools of the incompetent.
Thursday, May 15, 2008
seventh heaven.
"am i my brothers keeper?" - nino brown
When I first saw New Jack City I learned many inner city rules and logics. For one, Nino Brown and Cash Money Brothers made it clear that it was always business before pleasure, no matter the circumstances. Another critical logic in the movie showed how money and drugs can break up the best of friends, even brothers. But the one that was the most significant was the factor of loyalty. CMB was based off of one statement, "i am my brothers keeper" meaning that no matter what you had your brother back. But due to backstabbing, money issues and a new found addiction to the glass dick, G Money and Ninos relationship eroded and eventually led to Nino murdering his own brother. In todays society of corrupt crime and criminal like individuals one man stands out in my mind. Convicted on cruelty to animals, Michael Vick is now facing a year or so in jail. But this isn't an article about his severe acts to dogs and not being able to leave the backhome boys, but a blog about his loyalty. With all three of his lifelong best friends throwing him under the bus, Vick wouldn't give in. He was loyal to himself and his boys. Later Vick would make a plea agreement to get a shorter sentence. But you really can't blame him for giving in at the end, since all of his "boys" snitched on him. Even after the horrible acts he committed to doing, Vick still has my respect for being true to himself and his ideals. if Vick can learn his lessons and stay on the right path he will return to greatness. But even if he does come up short on his return, he will always be his brothers keeper.
i-n.
fifty.
"when your playing bad your old, but when your playing good your experienced" - costas
In the suburban black community alot of things are not certain for a man. No one is guaranteed a father, being financially stable or even a settle home. But in most cases, a mother-son connection is destined. I don't know how to explain it. You can call me a mama's boy or whateva, but thats just love and bond that grows from within. And this post is dedicated to the number one woman in my life. From child birth my mom kept a patient hand with me and raised me quite well. She kept me active in my studies and sports and always told me to think and dream big. Its just amazes me how shes still here beside me after all the dumb things I been through, being suspended, failing classes and even lying to her. But we are all past that now. On May 15, 2008 Gayle Mundell turns the ripe and tender age of fifty. Words really can't symbolize how I feel towards her but all I know is that she is my hero and I wouldn't change anything for the world. Today is your day.
Happy Birthday Mom. thank you.
-T
i-n.
In the suburban black community alot of things are not certain for a man. No one is guaranteed a father, being financially stable or even a settle home. But in most cases, a mother-son connection is destined. I don't know how to explain it. You can call me a mama's boy or whateva, but thats just love and bond that grows from within. And this post is dedicated to the number one woman in my life. From child birth my mom kept a patient hand with me and raised me quite well. She kept me active in my studies and sports and always told me to think and dream big. Its just amazes me how shes still here beside me after all the dumb things I been through, being suspended, failing classes and even lying to her. But we are all past that now. On May 15, 2008 Gayle Mundell turns the ripe and tender age of fifty. Words really can't symbolize how I feel towards her but all I know is that she is my hero and I wouldn't change anything for the world. Today is your day.
Happy Birthday Mom. thank you.
-T
i-n.
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