selfish&greedy.

"i couldn't pull out, it was toooo.." - lovetrain.

My brothers, my brothers. No matter what social class you reside in, what hood you belong too or even what size white tee you wear, we are all brothers in the same struggle as being a black man in America. Through all the dumb shit I have seen in my days from guys fighting over stepping on shoes or colors by far the dumbest is nutting IN girls without a condom on. That is just the purest sign of greed and selfishness. You know the consequences of going in there raw already, THEN you nut IN her. I just don't get it. I, personally, have gone raw before and it is an unreal and undescrible feeling. But I don't know about you guys, but when I feel the Big Kahuna coming I automatically here baby screams and get the hell out of there. If you are going to go raw the least you can do is pull out for the girl's sake. You don't have to go through nine months of pain, irritation and hostility. This blog is basically about pulling out and respecting the female you are sharing the experience with. You got to remember my brothers this isn't all about you, neither is it all about her, its a shared experience. So why not have a great ending by just pulling out and if necessary, splashing on her belly or back. Too many of my brothers fall into the trap of early parenthood and not ready for the responsibility that a child brings. None of us are naturally ready to raise a child but forced to, therefore leading to a domino effect of uncertainties. And to my brothers out there that have had a child due to greediness, keep pushing and keep your head up. Raise the child to the best of your abilities and don't become a statistic or cliche. Our generation is already defined as troublemakers and fuckups, so why add to the madness? Sometimes life just comes down to the most simple choices and decisions. Think with your mind guys, not your heads!

i-n.