tarnished trophy.

"Don't you, ever, get too, comfortable" -babyface.

The love is in the air. The relationship is even stronger. And after all the bullshit from the past year or so, you guys are still together. But one circumstance that lies in a mans mind while with his lady over an extended period of time is her dress code. Now you (ladies) are comfortable in the relationship. Paying no mind to it, I notice ladies feel as though they don't as much effort into there outer appearance as the relationship goes on. Meaning, the heels are only for club use now and the freekum dress is only pulled out for one of your girlfriend's birthdays. Therefore, it leaves us (men) going out on dates with women in wifebeaters, baby tees & sweats. Now I am not asking you to put on a sundress and pumps when going to Wal-Mart, but just take into account that when out with your man man, you are his trophy, his star and his sun. So why not let that sun shine? In black love, all we have is each other, so why not treat me like its the first date and make my mind wonder?

love-peace&hairgrease.

i-n.

gold rush.

We are thirty three days away from the presentation of medals for men's basketball at the Beijing Olympics. There you will find Team USA. Headed by Kobe Bryant and LeBron James, this somewhat undersized team will be accepting there gold medals and singing the national anthem. Most will be hiding tears and all will be overjoyed in this feat. Considering that the USA hasn't won a world tournament since 2000. But you know all the facts, you know all the players and know the feats they will face. There is no need for me to breakdown the thoughts lingering in peoples minds about this team. Yes, we should have added more size and yes, we might be smaller than anyone else. But without a doubt, this is the most talented and athletic team ever assembled. The question is how much and by how many. This team will win, but may get hit with a few small speed bumps. But in the end, there will be tears of joy and a bunch of "I tol you so's."


EXHIBITION TV SCHEDULE

7/31 - v. Turkey @ 8am on ESPN2 & re-airs @ 8pm on ESPN2

8/1 - v. Lithuania @ 8am on ESPN2

8/3 - v. Russia @ 3am on ESPN2 & re-airs @ 7pm on ESPN2

8/5 - v. Austrailia @ 8am on ESPN2 & re-airs @ 8pm on ESPN2

All times are Eastern.
i-n.

phase chasers.

"Im just waiting to wake up from this dream" -cupcake.

You can talk to her for hours. You miss her as soon as she leaves. And when the grown up is done, the grown up is DONE. The infatuation phase might be the best phase in the converting friends into lovers. To me the phase is very blinding though. At this part of the relationship, even though its not a certified nor exclusive, all you notice is the good things. The bad things seem to be irrelevant due to us being young, black and alone we seem to cling to one another. Even though they may smack when they eat or be a constant phone checker, these slight things are nothing in the infatuation phase. The lust is deep and the love looks to be real, but is it a figment of our imagination or isn't it? That is the question we must ask when any of us falls head over heels for a new fling. Is this a summer fling that will grow into winter love just to be split into a spring break? Love has many tricks and turns, but one thing for certain is that the new found infatuation in meeting a new being will be there. Its always good to think optimistic, but then there are times were you need to be pessimistic. Black love is beautiful, but sometimes can be blinded to be black lust if the sex is overwhelming and the physical attraction is fatal. Listen to your mind, but trust your heart ladies and gentlemen. The infatuation phase is a motherfucker.

NOTE: Fellas I suggest you do background checks, credit card checks and ask around about a female before claiming anything.

i-n.

tomato, tomato.

"you gon miss me when Im gone" -hova.




She had such a distinct taste. We've all been enjoying her fresh taste since we were kids. Some say shes even a fruit. Some say shes a vegetable. To me shes everything. The other day I ordered a Chicken Tendercrisp from Burger King (imo-the best chicken sandwich in the world) and within the first bite I realized a difference. The chicken was done, the lettuce was fresh and the buns were buns. But aside form the obvious, my favorite fast food sandwich was missing the tomatoes. Never mentioned into the spotlight, never received great credit, but here today I am. The tomato might be the greatest the role player in sandwich history. Yes-everybody didn't love her and yes-the ones that did never really appreciated her. But this blog was made for her. I love you tomato and get well soon.

i-n.

meet the cool kids.

www.myspace.com/gocoolkids

i-n.

six hundred.

"greatest home run hitter of our era" - espn.







600 homers.
2600+ hits.
13 time All Star.
10 Gold Glover.

1 Ken Griffey, Jr.

i-n.

bros over hoes.

"man fuck that skut ass scavengin ass bitch" -lovetrain



Ladies its not your fault. We were raised like this. From the sandbox to now we, men, have always hung tough. It just in our genes. A common bond amongst us guys. You wonder why we fight so much at the club over nonsense, just cuz we got our mans back and that we will do anything for each other. No woman can come before a man and his boys. Its just a code thing. In the sandbox or at recess, we fought girls, played Freaky Fridays with them and hide and go get it. However, if you recall, we always did it with our boys. Its the small moments that we cherish together for lifetimes that come to men bonding with men. Its the sports as a youth that teach us teamwork and respect for one another. And see thats where the problem lies for most female friendships. As a youth, most ladies don't develop teamwork and respect for oneself to even respect each other. Alot of girls just learn to watch television and rant&rave around. And the term "bros over hoes" is funny, because the only reason why the term is "hoe" is because it rhymes. Its really no offense to the women but its just a word to classify them at once and rhymes with bros. Even though the bond is strong there are some men who have no backbone and let their "lady" run their lives, but thats just a small percentile. Ladies please don't try to jump over a man and his boys or you will just be dismissed. They are our brothers and you need to accept your position. You will get promoted in due time if you apply.

i-n.

r&b is ALIVE.

In 2004 Usher released the critically acclaimed "Confessions" that went DIAMOND in sales, spawned world tours and spoke of his revelations in his personal life. Now in 2008, he stands to release his follow-up, "Here I Stand." But this blog isn't about Usher's grand achievements but the overlooked brothers in his own profession. In the past four years, some of the best male r&b material has been released and no one has said a word. We know hip hop is dead, alive and revived, but male r&b is growing. So many newcomers have came and dropped very solid debut albums including J Holiday's "Back of my Lac", Dream's ultra sexy "Love Hate" and the revival of a career in Jamie Foxx's "Unpredictable." Then there have been the once in a lifetime artist like John Legend who released "Get Lifted" in 2004 and came back and dropped an ego trippin switch in "Once Again." His mellow tone and lively figures leave bedrooms and backseats in awe when he plays. Another artist who has given the public two doses in this span is the metro's own Raheem DeVaughn. "The Love Experience" premiered in 200, but was an underground classic because it wasn't marketed well. However, due to the growing popularity of "Love Behind the Melody" new fans are referring back to the classic RDV. Also, one man has been the heart and go to guy of this writing thing for a while and thats Ne-Yo. Including his own albums, Ne Yo has generated nothing but fire from under his pen and pad. His detailed lyrics and steady beats keep the night afloat and I can't wait for the "Year of the Gentlemen." The most consistent artist of the r&b crooners is Musiq Soulchild. After taking his own four year hiatus, "luvanmusiq" was released and was a quiet storm at first. Later it would rise to gold in sales and recieve a Grammy. But the biggest surprise had to be Puff's reality tv experiment in Making the Band. Later to be named Day26 (which no one still doesn't know what that means) they would grow up right before out eyes in three seasons of hardships under Puff's guidance. When the self-titled album dropped in 2008, alot of people were skeptical and weren't trying to fall under the reality hype. However, I can honestly say this IS the best male r&b group CD i've heard since the Dru Hill days. Take my word for it. But even through all this success, there were failures and setbacks. Tank is still a one hit wonder, Tyrese left to do movies and TPain still has his technology and rap chorus hooks. But what I am trying to get you to understand is that r&b isn't just a one man band, but more like a dream team. I suggest if you haven't copped or heard any of these albums, I say you burn them, purchase them, do what you do.

NOTE: Only sex, love and baby making can be made to these CDs-no fucking! enjoy!

East Coast v West Coast.

Three reasons why the Lakers WILL win the NBA Finals.

1. Bench play
A hungry, deep bench that consists of speed (Farmar), shooting (Radmonovic & Vujacic) and hustle (Turiaf) this is no B-team!

2. Lamar Odom
The quick and Mr Do it All big man was the key difference to the Spurs demise. I expect nothing but the same against the Celtics.

3. KOBE.
nuff said.

Three reasons why the Celtics WILL win the NBA Finals.

1. Defense
With the quickness and speed of Rondo at the point and Garnett lurking in the back ground, the C's defense is very stingy when it comes to scoring.

2. Home court advantage
The possibility that they can win the championship without winning another road game and the fact that they lost only one home game is remarkable.

3. Kevin Garnett
13 hard, long seasons later. This is what he has been waiting for.

lakers in 7.

i-n.

Kanye West - Flashing Lights - second version.

this is mines, that is yours.

"shes the dame whos the username to all my passwords" - lupe.

I really wonder why the guy/girl that came up with the password to the cell phone was thinking. We all know its there for security and protection for if your cell phone is lost or stolen, but what about spousal abuse? You know the insecure girlfriend that wants to know your every move or the little side joint that just wants to know your business. This can be annoying and irritable for the average man. And ladies I know there are men out there that do the same things. So my question is why not calm down the emotions and relax. My first argument is that it is 2008 people. Plenty of people like myself put very personal and intimate things in our cell phones, because the cell phone can do damn near everything. My second argument is why be so insecure. I trust you, you trust me. There is no need to verify trust by digging through phones and emails. The last argument would have to be if I don't go through yours, why go through mines? That is just self explanatory. And then I know there are some men and women out there that are in relationships that share passwords, but still keep there cell phones to themselves. This is cool for now, but when times get tough the questions will fly and come at a rapid pace. Next thing you know, you might have to hide your cell phone. Thats why I believe the cell phone and password sharing should be kept to ones self. Now I am not married nor planning to in the near future so I can't answer this question for the newlyweds. Enter with your own caution.

i-n.

how to ... with Karrine 'Superhead' Steffans.

xxxvidstream.blogspot.com/2008/05/
hip-hops-1-groupie-superhead-with-mr.html

i broke the link up so your kid sister won't view it..

copy and paste the link above in your address box.

watch-learn-practice-master

ENJOY!

NOTE: If you want to KEEP your man at bay, I suggest you learn.

i-n.

all eyes on me!

"braceface! sit your ass down" - dj alize.

You know as a twenty some odd year older, one of the best privileges you have is going to the club. The whole nightlife experience, from the pre-gaming to the false realities of bringing a breezy back to the crib is fascinating. As a youngster we saw our parents, uncles and aunts, cousins, older siblings and eventually us enjoy this lifestyle. Drinks will overflow, fights will happen and someone will have to babysit their best friend tonight. All of these situations regularly happen at the club. But then again these situations can be avoided or put to some type of rest. However, there are unavoidable and irritating people in the club like the SUPER bouncer, because he has to be more annoying than a mall cop or the wack ass DJ who thinks hes keeping the party going. But to top these two I would like you to meet the attention whore. YES, the attention whore. Every song is HER song. She knows the the words to EVERY song. Vodka is pouring from out her sweat glands and her freekum dress continues to rise to no mans surprise. Her eyes are damn near shut but her mouth continues to run. For some reason she knows too many people in this club and her hair is all but gone. You know if you read that again, you would think I'm talking about a birthday girl of some sort, but I'm not. See usually thats where the attention whore messes up psychologically. She thinks its her birthday and wants all the attention on her, but no. Ladies, I give you one day out the year to be the biggest attention whore all you want to be, but if I continually see you in the club acting like its your birthday we have a problem. But the bad thing about REAL attention whores, some don't need the club lights to hit them or the mimosa to run through them. For some its their nature to be loud and proud. When you talk to them, they dominate the conversation. When you see them in the streets, you can hear them from a block away. Either all of these girls had a sibling who stole the attention from them as a youth, were the only child or just love to have all on eyes them. Sometimes I can understand why these girls act like this. Usually two or three girls in their crew look better than them so they have to compensate for the attention distribution. See what you have to understand attention whores is that your really getting bad attention. Don't no real man want an attention grabbing female that gets it through her mouth. And I'm not saying that the quietest are the best, but ladies if you actually want to pull something that is worth something, please calm down. The real attention getters are the ones who stand out through appearance, not volume.

NOTE: You can be an attention whore through non-verbal communication too. i.e. - dancing on chairs, tables, poles, etc.

i-n.

Wale - W.A.L.E.D.A.N.C.E.

phone tag. YOUR it.

"ima call you back" -anonymous.

You know in a world where texting and sending messages seems to be the best way of communication, nothing is better than a simple phone conversation. You know just to check up on someone or even to arrange a meeting between the two. But in todays world, calling is just used for delivery orders, calling Wachovia to say that you lost your debit card and to check on moms every once in a while. However, not too long ago there was a time where you would call a lady of interest and actually get to know them and care for them in some type a way. Some days you would call her and as soon as she picked up the phone, she says, "I'll call you back." Being the gentleman you are you let her call you back. But by the time you are ready to go to bed, still no call back. Now this is where it gets tricky people. Do you call back even though she said she will call you back or send a polite text saying "goodnite" or one saying "i wish i woulda got a call back." Now the next day is here, you check your phone and still no text back or call. Now the same three options come up in yout head again but its more like fuck it. You may be in love, in lust or just plain infatuated with the conuterpart, but any and everyone hates to chase some one down. As if your the only one that wants to chill. Not calling back is a serious disease that is going around in our communities. Just a simple, "im sleepy" text will be a good enough for some. In conclusion, ladies and fellas too, you must drop this habit before that someone is fed up and just wont accept you for who you are any more.

NOTE: Excuses are tools of the incompetent.